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Stephen Colbert Talks AIDS

Poz blogger Oriol has some great insights on this week's discussion about AIDS on the Colbert Report, when Anthony Fauci appeared as a guest.  I love Colbert, and think he did a great job of conveying the mass misunderstanding of HIV through his on-air character....

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Meet Dirk Roth, Watch His Cool Video

I love music videos. The only time I see them is when TiVo picks up 120 Minutes on VH1 Classic, which I highly recommend watching if you haven't seen it. They show the best. I know, I know, you can YouTube videos anytime... but 120 Minutes really sorts out the quality...

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Feeling Better

After a week of feeling under the weather, I'm finally back to my mocha-drinking form.  I'm hoping that two weeks over the last month and half is enough sickness to see me through to the summer... The silver lining is that my body timed this stuff pretty well, aside...

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WWE Wrestles With Gay Issue

I am an unapologetic pro wrestling fan. Oh, wait, sports entertainment fan. WWE (World Wrestling Entertainment) takes great pains in correcting journalists who label their product "professional wrestling", as that is far too limiting in scope when you consider the...

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Stop the Bullying

Bullies suck. As a youth, I was never bullied beyond the norm- probably because my self-esteem was always high and I had a sharp tongue.  Also, in elementary school, I wasn't above punching a close friend if any kind of teasing got out of hand. I guess the only time I...

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Contest Is Over… Now What?

So the next installment of the Labtest Contest isn't until July, when my labs are drawn two days before I spend a week celebrating my 36th birthday. But I can't fall into the trap of looking forward to mid-summer excitement, which is four months away... so what does a...

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The Lab Results Are In! (Winner Announced)

Sharon Paul did it- no one else was even close! She guessed 520, and the actual t-cell count came in at 508. Seems a bit low, but the t-cell % came in at 30, up one from four months ago when I last had labs.  My viral load was detectable at 150-something. All very...

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Last Day to Guess My T-Cells!

Last day to guess on my t-cells and win one of these sweet, sweet, iced mochas.  I'd sure love to treat ya to one, so take a wild guess and good luck. (be sure to post your guess on my Poz Blog Comments section!) Guessing ends at 11:59 pm tonight. Results and winner...

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Labtest Contest IV: The Winner Gets A Mocha!

Last March, July and December I held a "Labtest Contest", giving readers of this blog a chance to win something cool simply by guessing how many t-cells I have when I get my labs drawn.  Well, last Thursday I had labwork done, and in a few days I'll email my doctor...

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Back From Vacation

I'd mentioned a few blog posts ago that I was feeling under the weather. So what do you do when you are feeling under the weather? You leave the weather for a better climate. And that's just what I did when I ditched the blah weather of Charlottesville, Virginia for...

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Last Positoid Standing: RIP Mike DeStefano

Former Poz columnist, comedian and HIV educator Mike DeStefano passed to spirit suddenly on Sunday due to a heart attack.  A lot of folks got to know his humor via his Top 5 finish on last year's season of  Last Comic Standing. I had the privilege of meeting "Mikey D"...

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Republicans VS. Planned Parenthood

One of the reasons why I'll probably never be able to cast a vote for a Republican is because of their views on sex, whether it's institutionalized homophobia (in which they obsessively cannot get the sexual imagery of homosexual acts out of their minds- hmmmm) or...

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Sex Education Now

Here's a great photo from a town hall meeting in Boston last month.  Students voiced their opinion on the lack of sex education in Boston area schools, where teenage pregnancy is the number 1 reason for high school dropout rates. An ounce of prevention... a pound of...

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Tribute to Mr. Hahn

Earlier this month, I received some sad news via Facebook that one of my Friends on their had passed to spirit.  The Friend?  My Speech Communications teacher from my senior year in high school, Duane Hahn. Duane was a Waynesboro High classic, one of a handful of...

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On the Mend, On the Move

I still feel pretty rough, but getting better... managed to get out during the day yesterday, which is a step in the right direction.  Am also well enough to go forward with a week-long trip for a little r&r, even though staying at home sounds quite relaxing. ...

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ill-timed illness

I had a good run last year, and into 2011, on not getting the crud that's been going around.  It seems like everyone I know has been sick with a cough, temperature, or sinus infections.... well, my run of good fortune ended on Tuesday night... And the timing really...

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Rep. Anthony Weiner Is Great

I love this guy. Here, Rep. Weiner asks House Republicans to give up their cushy health insurance plans if they are so against people being able to get decent coverage. Sure, he's a blowhard, but that's what makes him shine. And I think the Democrats need more people...

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I Am Uninsured

Yup.  I have joined the over 50 million Americans who do not have health insurance.  My private health insurance dropped the dead weight- me- at the end of last year.  Here's how it all went down... Let's start at the beginning.  I was covered under my father's health...

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Belgian Gay Couple Waiting For Son

UPDATE from Roel regarding blog post below: *** GREAT NEWS TODAY! *** Press release from the Ministry of Foreign Affairs of Belgium (February 18th 2011) Following the recent ruling by the Court in Brussels on Samuel Ghilain - who currently resides in Ukraine - Foreign...

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A Valentine’s Tale by Gwenn

I can't leave you with Tommy Morrison as a valentine from yesterday.  But I can share a very nice post that Gwenn wrote on Valentine's Day, over on her A Latte Style tumblr page. I'm a lucky guy. - STD when? February 14, 2011 "Shawn and I have never been big...

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Tommy Morrison: Not a Valentine’s Tale

Came across an article thanks to a posting by Mark S. King on Facebook. It's about Tommy Morrison, the boxer who rose to prominence in the early-to-mid 1990's, starring in Rocky V before an HIV diagnosis ended his career prematurely. A moment I'll never forget is when...

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WeekDaily Blogging and I Dream of Bieber

So I'm loving this daily blog stuff. I enjoy passing along interesting bits of news and random stories to fill in for the general lack of excitement in my own life. And really, that's kind of what blogging and social networking has evolved into- more of a sharing of...

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URGENT: Help Block Funding Cuts for Hemophilia

Hemophilia is one of the most expensive disorders out there. Many families have to file bankruptcy just to get by because the treatments, especially for severe blood-clotting deficiencies, can cost families thousands of dollars a month. The community has been great...

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Inside Job? 700,000 Condoms Stolen

I love the game Clue.  I just pulled off a major upset in my household when I beat Gwenn a week or two ago.  So I'm in the mood to solve a crime, and this one is right up my alley... It's the case of the 700,000 stolen condoms! For real. Check out the story on MSNBC. ...

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Talking About Sexuality Does Not Cause STIs

Colleges and universities in the New England area were recently spammed by conservative groups, who blamed the appearance of sex educators on campus for HIV infections rates... absolutely absurd. "In yet another attempt to shut down access to quality sex education,...

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Sick Kid Attends School- Thanks to Robot

I missed a lot of school after my HIV diagnosis- sometimes I was sick, sometimes I had a really sore throat... other times I wanted to stay home and play Nintendo. But I never had it as bad as Lyndon Baty, who is living with Polycystic Kidney Disease. His immune...

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Today is National Black HIV/AIDS Day

Here's a tweet that has a little more impact than my Super Bowl Blacked Eyed Peas swipe from yesterday: BETNews FACT: The rate of HIV diagnosis among black men is eight times that of whites, and the rate for black women is 19 times that of whites. There are many...

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