The return of the living blog! Sort of. I tried to get some #HorrorFeast action going on here, but some travel plans disrupted the writing flow and my collection of real life horror stories and fantasy fiction was unrealized. I even packed the laptop away for the four...
My Writings
From Reactive to Proactive (new article for RareDisease.Net)
“I am minimizing the scope of what is a minor risk, physically, and what is not. And it’s been revolutionary.”
The Privilege, And Price, of Aging With HIV
Another National HIV/AIDS Aging Awareness Day (September 18, officially) is here and, alas, I am one year closer to age 50. These days my overall health is on the front burner in a way that it hasn’t been since I started on HIV medications at age 23. It’s not that my...
Some Of My Life Essentials As A HIV Longterm Survivor
There are a lot of factors as to why I'm able to live the life I am today. Part of being a longterm survivor, for me, is gratitude and understanding of the safety nets I had (supportive family, safe roof over my head, etc) growing up. I was fortunate that, by the time...
My Top 5 POZ Magazine Blog Posts of 2022
I have had very active blogging fingers. The last year certainly gave me a lot to write about. Most significantly, the passing of my mom... and her messages to me from beyond the grave (which I'm still, and will always be, receiving). I also gave some flowers to one...
My Rare Disease Journey With Hemophilia
Most of my "medical resume" musings from the patient perspective have been about living with HIV. That's why I am excited to be contributing to RareDisease.Net, where I'll be sharing thoughts on a lifetime of lessons living with a bleeding disorder (Hemophilia A). My...
THE TOWELING: A Halloween Horror Short Story
Gary lays naked on his bed in his modest NYC apartment in the East Village. The window is cracked open and a breeze comes in as he channel surfs. He shouts towards the cracked bathroom door that is several feet from the bed. "Save some hot water for me!" Gary tugs the...
A Boy, A Virus and the Education of a Community
Recently I was contacted by Brian Bridgeforth, a fellow Waynesboro, VA native and the little brother of a longtime classmate and friend, Patti. (I believe Patti and I met in Kindergarten in 1980, and graduated together in 1993.) Brian works for the Waynesboro Heritage...
New Adventures in HIV Medication
In 2002 I made a decision regarding my HIV medications- I'd been on combination therapy for 3 years after receiving an AIDS diagnosis in 1999, and the HIV medication most certainly brought my health back. But at the same time, I was feeling the side effects and was...
My Poz.Com Exclusive Article, “Adventures in Baby-Making”
I had the pleasure of talking with Mark Zatyrka about he and his wife's decision to have children using sperm washing. (Mark's been HIV positive since childhood, his partner, Sasha, is HIV negative.) Read it on Poz.com here: Adventures in Baby-Making Positively Yours,...